Posted on 01/20/2006 6:37:55 AM PST by Mr. Silverback
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Staying at home and raise kids is my dream. I wish I could do it!.
And the Libs are wondering why they are losing population in blue states and why they are losing the next generation politically?
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Mind if I ask what your situation is like?
Yep. Some argue that if the Left weren't in favor of abortion (and the only members of the serious electorate getting them) they'd be running the country by now. I'm not so sure because abortion is used to keep so many dem voters in line, but for sure it is one of the factors that will lead to the eventual extinction of American liberalism.
I have good news and bad news.
Bad News: The Muslims, and especially the radical Muslims, are outpacing us on births.
Good News: The Americans who are having the most kids and passing on their values the most successfully are the conservative ones.
So, the scenario we're going to see in 25 years is Cowboys and Muslims.
Which reminds me: I never understood why Libs in this country, of all places, use "cowboy" as an epithet and insult.
Oh, well. A "cowboy" future is good enough for me.
What a bizarre argument. Unless someone is having kids, there is no market, no government. No public, therefore no "public sphere."
The traditional family worked a farm. Women did the major work of the household, an unending and tireless effort. Men worked in the fields or shops - also doing far more work than most people expect to have to do today. Factories worked long hours. I recall an old hand telling me, when I was starting out, of having come in to work on Easter Sunday. The boss dismissed the crew to celebrate the holiday - but in principle it was a work day.Men don't work nearly as hard as they used to. You can't expect women to work as hard as their grandmothers did, while their husbands relax. That's just not gonna fly, and it doesn't. Women - all of us - take for granted so many things made of plastic or synthetic fibers, so many things made efficiently by machines, so many things that run on electricity and radio communications, or run on gasoline, travel by airliner and enjoy such efficient health care for themselves and their loved ones, that the typical American woman today would blanch at the idea of living like Queen Victoria (1819-1901) did.
Seen from that perspective, we are all rich. Women who have too much work are, often, simply demanding too much of themselves and then complaining about the result. All too often they do it simply by allowing the children to walk all over them. Part of me believes that if they had so many children that they knew they couldn't possibly afford to spoil any of them, they would actually have life easier. As would the children themselves, bottom line. But when you think you can control your parents, you go to a lot of trouble to try to do it.
Liberals have a strange definition of flourishing. Maybe it means stuff that you don't want to do in front of the kids.
Interesting thoughts.
Okay, lemme try typing and barfing at the same time...
Is it just me, or is this woman's comment over-the-top insulting to all moms, particularly those of us who enjoy staying at home? And another thing...I have been a professional (retail management) and I am active politically (Ingham Coutny Executive Committee member, Voter ID Chair). In my 36 years, I have "worn many hats" besides that of being a homemaker to my husband and children. Many of those jobs were fulfilling. None of them was as enriching as my current role of wife and mother.
Pardon my language for a moment, but this lady is in dire need of a good ol' fashioned b!tch slap.
"And as to the Cares, they are chiefly what attend the bringing up of Children; and I would ask any Man who has experienced it, if they are not the most delightful Cares in the World; and if from that Particular alone, he does not find the Bliss of a double State much greater, instead of being less than he expected." -- Benjamin Franklin (Reply to a Piece of Advice)
What has your experience been like? If you don't mind me asking.
Nope, it's not just you. She looks down her nose at you. One wonders what she would think about my family with the registered nurse wife working and the husband staying home with the kids. Would she cheer because my wife supposedly gets all the fulfillment and isn't enslaved at home wiping noses, or would she think I'm a wussy boy? Would she look past the American fighting man with no remarkable effeminate tendencies and see an emasculated drone?
Nah...never mind, I forgot the usual press mindset. I'm sure she would just figure I'm a religious fanatic because I don't turn my kids over to the secular system for indoctrination each day and go out and get a full-time job. But on a genetic level she'd only respect me if I was wearing flannel, drinking Bud and carrying a bear carcass. when we met. ;-)
Pardon my language for a moment, but this lady is in dire need of a good ol' fashioned b!tch slap.
More like she needs prayer, but I certainly understand your frustration. Funny how she would call herself a feminist...do you think somebody like Jim Dobson has even a hundredth the derision for career women that this woman has for women who want to run their own lives and do it differently from her? As usual, "diversity" and "choice" mean "You choose to think and act like me or you're an idiot."
Ms. Hirschman is just another of those miserable people who can't understand why other people are happy - and can't stand it that we are. Scrape 'em off our shoes, honey!
Roger that.
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