It's a she, she's wrong, and so are you. The fact is, none of these problems existed in the Black community after the Civil war or well into the welfare era of the 1950's. Black families were just as stable as white families, with only marginally higher rates of illegitimacy, etc., and that's despite real, rather than fantasized, racial problems.
You are misinformed and need to educate yourself at some length as to "how humans behave." So far, you have been listening to people who have been lying to you.
Amen to that. They're not victims of what happened 140 years ago...they're a victim of entitlement run amok.