3 years ago when my daughter had cancer I was out constantly--I used up my sick leave from that year and from 5 of the previous years I had been in this system. (She's fine now, btw :)) The next year, I used up a great deal for followup appointments. This year, I doubt I use all 10 days granted to me.
But on the surface a teacher missing over 40 days of school in one school year looks bad--real bad, until one looks at the reason and then at the long term history.
"But on the surface a teacher missing over 40 days of school in one school year looks bad--real bad, until one looks at the reason and then at the long term history."
Yes, and that can curve the averages a bit. Don't forget pregnancies either. I try to miss as LITTLE as I can. I have probably missed about 12 or 13 days total over 10 years, none of them a sick day. I really don't care if I ever use them to be honest. I just love being in the classroom.
Taking 40 days off to care for a child with cancer is totally reasonable. That does not look bad.
We are glad that she is fine, now.
Best Wishes.