Now...why don't you tell me your source of reference for your opinions, and we'll have a talk. I'm serious.
My last two posts are nonsense? I have some familiarity with what she's going through, although I don't have 10 kids. My source is living most of my adult life in ghetto neighborhoods. I know the good ones, and I know the bad ones.
As long as the family can stay together, I'd say she's doing a good job. How else can you explain how her 13 yr old had the presence of mind to engineer the evacuation of all his siblings out of a burning building? The kid is a hero. All they need is a help up, and they'll be just fine.