I've seen enough similar comments after Hurricane Katrina. People praise large families, but when they need help, all of a sudden they're the plague. It doesn't matter if you're married, a spouse can walk out the door for a pack of smokes, and never come back.
I think this woman needs help. She's been traumatized, and she's never going to get on her feet again without counseling. 10 little people are depending on her.
I agree with you whole heartedly.