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Does Anyone Want to Be an Adult Anymore? (Up With Grups*)
New York Magazine ^ | March 2006 | Adam Sternbergh

Posted on 03/30/2006 7:59:55 PM PST by SLB

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To: RepoGirl

LOL! That is too true. You have to be a certain height for them to look right. If you are too short or too tall they just look funky. And not a good funky.

I'm really tall and I can't wear them either.


121 posted on 03/31/2006 9:40:03 AM PST by retrokitten ("That's my purse!! I don't know you!!"- Bobby Hill)
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To: RepoGirl

Tell it, sister!

I remember when I got my first walkman. I went to visit my parents and my mother wanted to try it out.

She handed it back to me in disgust. "You're a lawyer. I can't believe you're still listening to rock and roll." Jebus. I'm supposed to give up my musical life because I passed the bar? I don't think so.

And like you, I've had to get thru some tough spots, including my husband's death. And I've managed to do it even though I wear purple nailpolish and headphones.


122 posted on 03/31/2006 9:40:55 AM PST by radiohead (Hey Kerry, I'm still here; still hating your lying, stinking guts, you coward.)
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To: Chiapet
You are correct that there are responsible people in their 30s and 40s and it's also correct that you don't have to change your entire personality or preferences to be an adult. After all, a lot of the music that my father listened to was the pop music of his youth. That said, I think there is a growing number of people, judging from the numbers of people never having children, living with their parents into their 30s and 40s, and so on that are not growing up to the minimal level of responsibility needed to function as an adult. Have you seen the retirement commercials aimed at baby boomers implying that they'll be wind surfing and so on forever and never get old or slow?
123 posted on 03/31/2006 10:06:44 AM PST by Question_Assumptions
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To: sauropod

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124 posted on 03/31/2006 10:09:55 AM PST by sauropod ("War is the Devil's way of teaching Americans geography" - Ambrose Bierce)
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To: Question_Assumptions
I guess I'll have to see the movie, or at least sample the soundtrack.

Funny you should mention Poledorus' intention to use the Orff along with the Prokofiev. To my ears, it sounded as if Carl borrowed some ideas from Serge.

Then I checked the dates. Carmina Burana premiered, IIRC, five years before Alexander Nevsky was released. Food fer thought.

BTW, This coming Christmas season, I'm thinking of organizing a Carmina Burana singalong.

< ]B^)

125 posted on 03/31/2006 12:06:46 PM PST by Erasmus (Eat beef. Someone has to control the cow population!)
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To: RepoGirl

Good for you. I like quirky people (I'm quirky) too. I don't understand the conservative mentality that all wingers have to be suit-loving squares who wear wingtips for fun.


126 posted on 03/31/2006 12:15:50 PM PST by jjm2111 (http://www.purveryors-of-truth.blogspot.com)
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To: Erasmus
I guess I'll have to see the movie, or at least sample the soundtrack.

The movie is one of the best fantasy sword and sorcery movies out there. Take that as you will (i.e., if you don't like that sort of movie, it won't mean much to you). Arnold's acting is a bit thin, but Milius is a fairly conservative guy (he made the movie Red Dawn) and there is a strong self-sufficiency theme in the movie. The soundtrack is good even without the movie. You can find an interesting analysis of the movie, including a discussion of the soundtrack, here.

If you haven't seen it already, you should probably pass on Conan the Destroyer, a much cheesier sequel that missed what made the original good. There was some good additional music by Poledouris for that movie but you should avoid the movie unless, again, you really enjoy that sort of thing.

Funny you should mention Poledorus' intention to use the Orff along with the Prokofiev. To my ears, it sounded as if Carl borrowed some ideas from Serge.

It was Milius who wanted to use those composers and Wagner. Excalliber beat him to it so he tapped Poledouris to compose an original soundtrack along the same lines. In my opinion, he succeeded. Overall, I'm a big fan of Poledouris soundtracks, whether it's Quigley Down Under or Starship Troopers.

BTW, This coming Christmas season, I'm thinking of organizing a Carmina Burana singalong.

Just "O Fortuna" or the whole thing?

Nearly every Christmas, my wife and I go see the Trans-Siberian Orchestra's Christmas Concert, an interesting mix of religious themes, classical music, and heavy metal. They perform a very interesting heavy metal version of the Carmina Burana's "O Fortuna" that they've been promsing to release on their next CD for at least 3-4 years now.

127 posted on 03/31/2006 1:12:56 PM PST by Question_Assumptions
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To: Chiapet
It's just that neither of us felt the need to morph our personalities, musical tastes, or clothing styles the second we became adults and parents. Why should we?

Why? It's simple. You must now prove what a responsible, self-aware, sober-thinking adult you are by dressing just like all the other people out there who are trying to convince the world that they are responsible, self-aware, and sober-thinkers. :)

Also, it wouldn't hurt to walk around with a stern, almost constipated-looking expression, so no one will mistake you for a "chick" instead of a WOMAN. :)

128 posted on 03/31/2006 1:23:34 PM PST by timm22
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To: radiohead
You sound like my kind of lawyer!

I was talking with my hubby last night about this thread and the idea that adulthood somehow also equates giving up parts of ourselves that we enjoy. The idea that, at some arbitrary age, we're supposed to say, "Right--that's enough of that. Time for the Lawrence Welk and the early bird dinner at Morrison's Cafe!" is really odd to us.

I'm contemplating the purchase of a mini-van in the next few years. I've got my eye on an Odyssey. I mentioned this with some shame to a friend of mine and he said, "I can't think of anything more rebellious for you, when you think of it. The punk rock mom with the Misfits on the stereo, the George W. sticker on the bumper and the cheerio-encrusted baby seat in the back."

For me, the punk aesthetic is extremely close to conservatism (or at least libertarianism): self reliance, individuality, and proactivity. (I mean, wasn't punk a reaction to the complacent hippies? It was all about DIY in the early days.) It's intrinsic to who I am. If people find that a sign of perpetual adolescence, that's their limitation, not mine. My house is paid for, I eat my green vegetables. The fact that I'm actually going to see A Flock of Seagulls in concert next week doesn't mean I can't accept reality, it just means I have goofy taste in music!

You survived through your time in the fire, and you're a tougher person because of it. I like tough people. Your purple nailpolish and your Walkman doesn't negate that. It just makes you a lot more intriguing in my book! Personally, since I'm a water person, I prefer blue nailpolish, and I'll listen to my iPod (or something like it) until my ears fall off. Rock on, sister! ps-- I like your South Park icon! Someday, I'll have to find a way to post mine on the freep!

129 posted on 03/31/2006 2:20:19 PM PST by RepoGirl ("That boy just ain't right..." Hank Hill)
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To: RepoGirl
I've updated to an Mp3 player. I like to skew the music demograpics by buying Richard Ashcroft, Smashing Pumpkins, Audioslave, and Radiohead. Of course, I also have my Monkees and Crosby Stills Nash & Young. Got to be well rounded.

From one KOTH fan to another, one of the best lines of all time: If you weren't my son, I'd hug you.

130 posted on 03/31/2006 2:45:15 PM PST by radiohead (Hey Kerry, I'm still here; still hating your lying, stinking guts, you coward.)
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To: radiohead
If you weren't my son, I'd hug you

That is one of the best lines, period! I also like Peggy's line from the episode where Bobby falls in love with LuAnne's Practice head:

"We can move to Berlin! They're tolerante of freaks there!"

131 posted on 03/31/2006 3:09:35 PM PST by RepoGirl ("That boy just ain't right..." Hank Hill)
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To: weegee
Cool is eternal.

"Cool" is the biggest scam ever foisted on the human race.

132 posted on 04/01/2006 6:44:22 PM PST by the invisib1e hand (blah)
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