You're saying they CHOOSE to live miserable lives?
Ridiculous.
Many people are miserable because of bad choices. There are many examples...drug or alcohol addicts to name just a couple.
I've always thought that to be a specious argument. Many people can be said to have chosen misery in a variety of ways. Women stay with abusers, for example. Just one example is a martyr complex. People's behavior is often a complex web.
But I suppose I recoil from this line of argument most because it implies that man is just an animal who is a slave to his or her sexual impulses and that sexual activity (not desire) is out of human control.
I sure deplore the activities by schools that promote children making these lifestyle choices without much information on the downside.
I emphatically state that ALL human beings can choose to or choose not to engage in any number of activities during their lifetime including homosexual activities.
You are the one stating that choosing to engage in disordered homosexual activity would entail living a miserable life -I myself would term it self-destructive - a slow suicide...