"Its monstrous yet true. What kind of parents do you think would kill their child? Now think how good parents they would be if their child was murdered? These people who get abortions are the people who used to raise derelicts."
Both my mother, who had three children, and my mother-in-law, who had two, told me they would have had abortions if they had become pregnant again. I believe them, but they do love the children they have and did a good job raising them. I also think it is something cold, heartless, monstrous in them - something cut off from God.
I know other women who regret their abortions and became good mothers and would have coped fine if they hadn't had abortions - and at least one woman who doesn't regret her abortion and is doing a decent job.
Of course there are exceptions as I am generalizing, but on average wouldn't you bet that willing mothers are better mothers?