Oh, *&^%$~!!!! I can't believe she buys into that "I have a right to be happy, no matter what" crap! I don't know about her, but there's no small print on my birth certificate guaranteeing that I'll always be "happy".
With all due respect to your wife, she needs to rethink that position.
I'm afraid my wife buys into the OPHRAH world view. But, many women do
My wife thinks that there "had to be something wrong with (the husband", or she wouldn't have wanted a divorce. (Never mind that the woman was having an affair). Nevermind that the young woman the husband thought to be his wife's younger sister was actually his wife's illegitimate child.
We live in an age where people what to pick and choose what to believe in Christianity (sort of buffet style). The "What I Feel" brand of so called Faith.
The Bible warns against this when we are told not to trust the heart as it is deceitful above all things.