When people complain to me and pull out that victim business, they're talking to the wrong person.
I worked my way through college and medical school, and I earned every penny I have. I also put my wife through four years of college, though she was from a wealthy family; her parents didn't approve of me, and, frankly, I didn't blame them. I got my mother through college by teaching her every night at the kitchen table, though she payed for it herself. I sent each of my children through college three times. When I got rich, I set up a scholarship fund to send indigent people to college. The target group was adults, especially people with children who wanted to better themselves, but there were no classifications (no racial, gender, sexual-orientation, ethnic, health, age, etc. barriers)--and this was before laws were passed to regulate such things; I did not discriminate on any basis (I don't need government to regulate my morality). I don't know how may people I have educated, and I don't care. The way I have lived my life is between God and me.
My wife and I lived on $190 a month, and from that I paid her college tuition.
We live a cushy, extravagant, and oh-is-it-happy!!! life now, but if we had to, we could go back to sleeping on concrete blocks and cooking on a used hotplate.
Never trade in your hobnail boots for velvet slippers! I never shall!