Though I feel for this man's loss I will just say what I tell my kids with any movie we watch.
These are not real pictures. This is not a documentary. Bambi's mother is actually in her trailer drinking a latte after that scene.
How about this change: Car races train but has second thoughts; says "I can't do this" and lets train pass; train says "thank you", as do a dozen cars carried by the train. The lesson is taught.
I used to ride a mule around our tiny town.........I would cringe when I heard the train whistle and we were near it.....................Festus was so strong he would wurl around and run a fast as he could...along side of the train.....if there were people there...they would be laughing....scared the cr%$* out of me!