[MilspecRob]

"Get over it." You don't get over the loss of a child. I'm amazed I even have to say that.

First, even as I, a childless man, I understand that the loss of a child is beyond devastation for words

Second, I think questioning the wisdom of a "train race" scene has some merit.

But the poor man after 12 years is still apparently consumed with grief.

[Gone GF]

"But the poor man after 12 years is still apparently consumed with grief."

So what would you say is the time limit?