I'm not attacking you, just accepting that your arguments really don't even mean much to you, you will say anything for validation. So how can we argue or discuss, if you don't come at it honestly?
I am honest. I am guessing that you are attacking my "I have met many decent, hard-working gays and lesbians" comment. This is true, although I suppose there is no way to prove it online. I have worked with a few homosexuals, and they tended to do well and I have not had any problems with their work or working with them. I also have a lesbian friend, through which I have met many homosexuals. Also, in college there were a number of gays I met through class and in my dorms. I can't say that I met any delinquents, and while I did find the effeminate nature of many male homosexuals annoying, I was not bothered by them. It seemed that some of them (male and female) cared very deeply for their partners, and I saw no reason to prohibit their marriage. I think these people are just that, people. They have a different sexual preference, and a few have told me that they wish they were straight. However, they just do not get aroused by the opposite sex, and find themselves happier with a partner of the same sex. Not my gig, and I don't agree with most of them politically (homosexuals tend to be liberal; hence pro-gun-control and anti-Israel), but I still believe that they should have the right to get married as heterosexuals would.