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U.S. could use more girlie men (B.Y.O.B.B.)
St. Petersburg Times ^ | August 20, 2006 | ROBYN E. BLUMNER

Posted on 08/20/2006 1:19:02 PM PDT by Lorianne

Deadwood is one of my favorite programs. Set in a South Dakota gold mining camp in the 1870s, it grittily explores the way human beings organize themselves when consigned to a lawless territory that attracts miscreants, varmints and vultures.

A recent episode had an especially insightful moment when all the leaders of the camp were called to an important meeting without an invitation proffered to the female owner of the camp's only bank. Alma Garret could have all the money in the world, but because she has two X chromosomes (a distinction more graphically described in the show), she wasn't about to have a voice in camp affairs.

The writers were right. Testosterone-laden Deadwood is not a welcome place for women. When the law is determined by the number of gunslingers on your side, women don't flourish. But neither do men, certainly not men of learning or ability. Which is why Deadwood, as its name suggests, is doomed.

I mention this because I've been feeling lately that the world has suddenly gone all male - Deadwood-male to be exact. And this is not a good sign for civilization.

Although I consider myself a feminist, I'm not the man-hating kind. Men have clearly been at the forefront of nearly all the great advances in science, medicine and humanist thought.

We understand the physical forces of the world thanks to Isaac Newton and the natural ones thanks to Charles Darwin. There wouldn't have been an Enlightenment without John Locke or Voltaire. Gandhi, Martin Luther King Jr. and Nelson Mandela remind us that compassion and a taste for social justice are found in both sexes.

I also believe that men and women are more similar than they are different.

Still, those who would glorify violence and the law of the streets are thought of as masculine for a reason. Dirty Harry never said, Let's talk about it.

Fighting terrorism has steeped us in a social psychology that is palpably different from our 50-year battle with the Soviet bear. There is something more aggressively mano a mano about fighting Islamic extremists. And that difference has been exploited by our leaders to justify knocking down the rules of civilization, such as the Geneva Conventions, as being too effete. The claim is we must respond to the terrorists' lack of humanity by throwing out our own standards. The result is a vicious cycle of ever-deepening depravity (Let's talk secret CIA prisons).

Yet this dirty, street-fighting paradigm has fit perfectly with George Bush's swaggering cowboy approach to geopolitics. Bush likes his enemies in black hats and hiding in the brush. For Bush, justice gets meted out when the good guys take matters into their own hands and don't wait for lawyers with fancy words like "due process."

But what you never see is that when the hero rides into the sunset, the real work of rebuilding a society is left behind.

The Deadwood hero leaves bodies in the thoroughfare, while the reality hero tries to prevent the bloodshed in the first place. The Deadwood hero is a vigilante, while the reality hero understands the inherent value of a society dictated by the rule of law. The Deadwood hero is impulsive, aggressive and macho, while the reality hero is a rational consensus-builder with an intelligent plan of action.

Under a curtain of fear from terrorism, we have been manipulated into thinking that our national security depends on casting our lot with a Deadwood hero, when in fact it lies with the other.

International affairs professor Gary Bertsch at the University of Georgia - he is also director of the Center for International Trade and Security - puts it forthrightly: "The Bush administration has relied on hard power (militarism) rather than diplomacy (soft power) and it has been very costly. It is reshaping the view that the rest of the world has of the United States as a responsible power."

Bertsch says it is in our national interest to put much more emphasis on dialogue, give and take and negotiation over military dominance. Otherwise, he warns, our allies will soon no longer regard the United States as a model to follow.

Deadwood societies are anti-intellectual havens of selfishness and triumphalism, where warfare and violence are extolled and the feminine ethos of cooperation, understanding and forbearance are disparaged as weak. There is little doubt that many Muslim subgroups fit this mold. Their men would rather shoot guns at ancient enemies than build a modern society. But it is also true that our nation has adopted more of this aspect under Bush than we would like to admit.

Almost nothing could be more damaging to our future prosperity or security. A Deadwood society will never foster positive social change or human advancement. Its focus on force will evoke more violence. Its contempt for intellectuals will silence reason. And if we continue to inch down this road, our fate will be just as bleak as that of the residents of that muddy street in that grimy town in the Black Hills of South Dakota.


TOPICS: Foreign Affairs; Politics/Elections
KEYWORDS: metrosexuals
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1 posted on 08/20/2006 1:19:03 PM PDT by Lorianne
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To: Lorianne

There will that do?


2 posted on 08/20/2006 1:26:40 PM PDT by SandRat (Duty, Honor, Country. What else needs to be said?)
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To: Lorianne

Fictional television is not the basis for foreign policy.


3 posted on 08/20/2006 1:27:25 PM PDT by USNBandit (sarcasm engaged at all times)
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To: Lorianne

---gazing out over the real Deadwood on a beatiful fall day--that writer is in a different universe-


4 posted on 08/20/2006 1:28:15 PM PDT by rellimpank (Don't believe anything about firearms or explosives stated by the mass media---NRABenefactor)
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To: Lorianne

Gotta give her credit, it's not that easy to jam this much nonsense in a single article.


5 posted on 08/20/2006 1:29:11 PM PDT by Bahbah (Goldwasser, Regev and Shalit, we are praying for you...and now Steve and Olaf.)
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To: Lorianne

Aside from the fact that gold from that town financed the expansion of the west, she'd rather we were all spoken of
nicely by our Islamic overlords.

Baaaah. Metro-feminists!

She likes men if only they weren't so manly.


6 posted on 08/20/2006 1:29:33 PM PDT by tet68 ( " We would not die in that man's company, that fears his fellowship to die with us...." Henry V.)
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To: Lorianne
I mention this because I've been feeling lately that the world has suddenly gone all male - Deadwood-male to be exact. And this is not a good sign for civilization.

Oh, yeah, with the french, the wimps in the US and leaders like Olmert the world has gone all male. What a pantload this article is. What we need are more real men in the world today and the frickin' terrorist would be all dead and we wouldn't have to worry about the murderous bas****s anymore.

7 posted on 08/20/2006 1:29:53 PM PDT by calex59 (Hillary Clinton is dumber than a one eyed monkey with a brain tumor(credit to Harley69))
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To: Lorianne
Was it the Deadwood hero that won WWI and WWII, or was it the intellectual lets-talk-about hero?
8 posted on 08/20/2006 1:31:23 PM PDT by DejaJude (Admiral Clark said, "Our mantra today is life, liberty and the pursuit of those who threaten it!")
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To: Lorianne
What a pantload.

This poor, addled little girl hasn't heard of Dresden, Bremen, Kobe...and certainly forgot those pesky little details about FDR's Japanese internment camps.

9 posted on 08/20/2006 1:31:46 PM PDT by paddles
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To: Lorianne
Fighting terrorism has steeped us in a social psychology that is palpably different from our 50-year battle with the Soviet bear... And that difference has been exploited by our leaders to justify knocking down the rules of civilization, such as the Geneva Conventions, as being too effete.

The Geneva Conventions did address the modus operandi of the terrorists, and explicitly state that the normal rules don't apply to them. Or at least, that's what the words meant when they were originally written, cf. The Living Constitution.

10 posted on 08/20/2006 1:32:50 PM PDT by KayEyeDoubleDee (const Tag &referenceToConstTag)
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To: Lorianne

Harsh as it sounds, I'm coming to the conclusion that if your goal is to keep others from messing with you, fear is a better deterrent than love.


11 posted on 08/20/2006 1:33:40 PM PDT by John Jorsett (scam never sleeps)
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To: Lorianne

Deadwood is about as interesting a show as this column is interesting to read.


12 posted on 08/20/2006 1:34:03 PM PDT by JohnnyZ (I ha' da Steve Nash DO befo' Steve Nash DID)
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To: Lorianne
"The Bush administration has relied on hard power (militarism) rather than diplomacy (soft power) and it has been very costly. It is reshaping the view that the rest of the world has of the United States as a responsible power."



Wrong. There is no way to make sense of that which does not make sense, and there is no way to negotiate with people who do not value life, or the lives of their children. There is no way to negotiate with those hell bent on destruction of any and all things that do not match their own ideals, at the expense of their own lives, for which they are rewarded in their version of paradise in a perverted afterlife. Belief in these things on such a strong fundamental basis, is what makes this situation on that is nonnegotiable.
13 posted on 08/20/2006 1:34:49 PM PDT by gidget7 (PC is the huge rock, behind which lies hide!)
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To: Lorianne

Dear Ms. Blumner:

Deadwood is a TV show. It isn't a real place, or way of thinking.


14 posted on 08/20/2006 1:35:44 PM PDT by hemogoblin
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Robyn doesn't remember that without some of those "macho" men she so disparages she would be speaking German instead of English.
15 posted on 08/20/2006 1:36:06 PM PDT by webboy45
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To: Lorianne

Girly men can't exist in Deadwood for the imple matter that they'd be killed off. Being able to tap into a violent streak doesn't make someone detructive. Without men who used violence to protect their family against violent men who did so for selfish reasons there'd be no advancement.

Liberalism will never understand the need for violence in society.


16 posted on 08/20/2006 1:36:44 PM PDT by Bogey78O (<thinking of new tagline>)
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To: Lorianne
Would that the author was correct. Sadly, she's 180 degrees out of phase with reality. Were it not for the girly-men who simply can't help but get in the way, there would be no "insurgency" in Iraq, the Hezbos would be back in Syria and Iran burying their dead and licking their wounds, and the middle east would be light years closer to some semblance of sanity. The UN is already the symbolic girly-man you seek. They, like the Deadwood heroine, need to be told to mind the housekeeping and stay the hell out the men's way. Cease fires brokered by girly-men at the UN never settle wars, they only prolong and intensify them.
17 posted on 08/20/2006 1:37:12 PM PDT by mngalt (In a sane world the answer to energy shortages would be more electricity and oil.)
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To: Lorianne
Iraq kidnap victim to al Qaeda executioner :
" let's talk about this please!....."
18 posted on 08/20/2006 1:37:44 PM PDT by LeoWindhorse
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To: SandRat

Not a peep from fems like this when they'll be ordered into a burka or face stoning. Maybe she'll be wishing for someone to come riding up to rescue her, though, like those good ol' cowboys were known to do.


19 posted on 08/20/2006 1:37:48 PM PDT by kittymyrib
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To: Lorianne
Robyn seems blissfully unaware that the men doing most of the shooting keep their women illiterate, disempowered, pregnant, and covered in cloth. It may be that all they need is a great big hug and the world would get all sunshiny but I sure wouldn't be placing any large bets that direction.
20 posted on 08/20/2006 1:38:20 PM PDT by Billthedrill
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