This practice is hardly confined to gay men Using that practice as the essential defining point of "who I am" is confined to gay men.
Any normal person would consider such self-definition to be a sign of mental illness.
Again, you go with race verses someone wanting to stick their penis where fecies gets dumped. Face it...that is the bottom line with gay men.
This practice is hardly confined to gay men...c'mon, now...
Well, I really can't comment on that as I personally never figured that would be very entertaining for me or my wife of 22 years. On the same approach, I would be against a married couple saying they want special considerations because they do.
That said, what 2-3-4, etc consenting adults do in the privacy of their own home is their own business and their choices. Just do not fight society to grant special considerations for this and keep it out of the public square, schools, etc.