I know this is very politically incorrect, but I know someone who had a little boy in preschool who was encouraged to cross-dress and pretend to be a girl at the preschool. Today he is very effeminate, and it won't surprise me if he is actually gay. The influence of a domineering mother and a preschool teacher who encouraged him to "get in touch with his sexuality" should be horse-whipped.
When I answered your post, I was actually responding to the message #1 "Uhhh. I have no idea where to even start on this one." It´s still hard for me to find words on this issue. I am surprised that people even think of that. Why should kids "cross-dress"??? WAAHHH!!! Where´s the common sense? Oh, right, we´re talking of the San Francisco area.