Socially, yes. Live and let live, unless and until they do something that directly affects me. I don't care if you're drunk, or stoned, until you get in a car and drive. Or commit a robbery. Then, you arrest that person.
The Rs who want govt sanctions of private behavior are also "flaming liberals" -- political liberals. That's the point.
Politically, I'm a staunch conservative. Politically, the Rs are flaming liberals.
Remember, the R party came to power on the basis of the 'Contract with America'. Which had nothing to say about gays, drugs, vice, etc.
It was about smaller, less intrusive govt.
Now, the R party is about BIGGER, more intrusive govt. And folks like you attack anyone who opposes that as "flaming liberals".
Ironic, eh?