How are his wife and child doing?
I lost track of them. I hadn't seen him in 25 or more years when it happened. I heard of his death from my older brother, months after 9/11. I never even knew his wife. I just hate to think of that goofy kid ending up with an airplane in his lap -- and of the grief of his wife and the deprivation of his child. Can't really help them personally, so I"m trying to help "generically".