[Enchante]

"...this was at a very tony private school where the tuition is on par with ivy league colleges."

Those are some of the worst offenders!! Let's put it this way: I taught for 8 years at an Ivy League university and it seemed like the most degenerate students came disproportionately from those "very tony private" schools.

[SoftballMominVA]

Well, I was shocked when she told me some of the things that came off as "senior pranks" ....one of which involved a prominantly place politician's daughter. She told me pretty much the same thing you did-that these private schools can get pretty raunchy and that the parents excuse this behavior.