[Ignatz]

If she be not so to me, what care I how fair she be, eh?

[the final gentleman]

"If she be not so to me, what care I how fair she be, eh?"
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Right string, Ignatz, wrong yo-yo.

Rather, your Culture determines how fair she be, and Ignatz, if virile, will pursue the socially prescribed fair maiden.

But we digress.

Real men don't cop out and claim the grass is greener.

All in all I think that you missed the analogy of the pearl at the bottom of the sea.