1. Do you realize you are giving your body, your mind, your soul and your reputation up for free?
2. I always ask, if your relationship is so amazing why do you think he is not willing to stand before the world and God and commit to you if you are so special?
3. What do you think is going to change his mind down the road? Especially after he sees you day in and day out and believe me. Under those conditions even the most amazing people wear thin and so does the romance with them.
4. Since you have not made a marriage commitment, what are you going to do if you come home and find him in bed with another woman? After all, girl. You aren't his wife.
5. What is going to stop him from bringing that girl home other than just a little guilt. After all he's not MARRIED. At least that is what he's going to tell himself and you know what he'll be right.
6. Are you not valuable enough to be given a life long commitment for the love and joy you have to bring another person? Because by doing this, this is what you are not only telling me, but also the guy you are moving in with.
Needless to say. I don't have anymore friends that move in with people. Just as a side note. Well over 15 years ago, I gave up three years of my life to a man that I lived with. What a waste of my time. Except for one thing I learned and that is all the above. Thank God I learned my lesson. I never lived with my husband until we were married before man and God.
Excellent list of questions.