[M-cubed]

sometimes....as in chess....moves that felt good early on, will be your downfall in the endgame..

[NurdlyPeon]

sometimes....as in chess....moves that felt good early on, will be your downfall in the endgame..

"felt good". That's the heart of the problem. Too many people are being "tolerant" because it makes them "feel good", like they are doing something noble and enlightened. One of the differences between children and adults is that adults understand that just because something feels good, or sounds good, or tastes good, doesn't mean that it is good.