As long as our society continues to trivialize traditional male traits (and in many cases demean and look down on traditional 60's values) while worshiping at the altar of perceived political correctness (as defined by the condescending liberal elite via the MSM)--that question will be more and more difficult to answer every day.
Our 'foo-foo' society has become intoxicated with the liberal cocktail--of high-minded idealistic naivete' mixed with ounce of manufactured feminine compassion in a big snifter of historical amnesia. (I'd rather have a ice cold BUD out of the bottle).