[Lovebloggers]

Yeah it would be much more preferred if she wasn't conceived at all right?

[maica]

She is speaking out about her feelings and observations, in the hope of stopping others from being "created" with only half a history.

I read no whining or wishing that she wasn't born in her article.

[Mrs. Don-o]

Nobody is wishing her out of existence. Children are conceived every day in ways that are an insult to human dignity --- through seduction, adultery, rape, prostitution, sperm-vendor, IVF, what-have-you --- and every one of them has a right to go on living, to be nurtured, to be valued.

Every human life has a sacred dignity from the moment of conception; but some methods of conception are intrinsically de-dignifying; through the parents' mishap, fault, or failing, they fall short of what a human child has a right to.

We can welcome all babies, without saying that depersonalized actions ---- promiscuous sex, adultery, rape, prostitution, sperm-vendor, IVF --- are OK because they sometimes produce babies. To flourish whole-heartedly, a child needs a Mom and a Dad who are married and who love their child and each other. How radical is that?

Some babies are fatherless by chance. No babies should be fatherless by choice.