You mentioned Steve Ford...is he married? I remember him from long ago on Y&R.
Dunno. Laughing at myself - you said "Y&R" and I thought you worked at Young & Rubicam (ad agency) with him.
So, I searched some things and found out you meant Young & the Restless. LOL, I worked all the time and didn't watch daytime TV - didn't know he did that. Last I remembered was he was a rodeo cowboy of a kind.
He lives in San Luis Obispo in Squire Canyon and I can't find any mention anywhere of a spouse in documents, but that doesn't mean there isn't one or hasn't been one. Sorry, I'm clueless.