I guess it's a matter of perspective. Personally, I'd sooner lose it all than have my mother spend her remaining days on "cheap throwaway furniture". I'd forfeit the entire estate in order to ensure her comfort for the few years she has left.
Exactly. And since it seems nothing has emotional value, even the OP is talking about it in terms of selling it all, it's really nickels and dimes for everyone. Even nice furniture and jewelry is used furniture and jewelry when it is stripped of it's emotional value as a momento. While estate sales can net a lot more than some might think,in the big scheme of things it's pocket change and not worth stressing out over.