I'm more than happy to agree that there is some quack psychology out there. Maybe even most of it is, the therapist has to make the car payment somehow, and they have a built-in incentive to keep people in a juvenile state to exploit their financial resources. I just don't think that they all do it, and this woman might well benefit from finding someone to talk about her sexuality with, besides a church leader who is celebate.
What crock full of platitudes.
Including the ones you shoved in my mouth? Nothing she does is going to erase the past, but she has choices to make about how she deals with it in the present, and how she will deal with similar choices in the future. Locking your mind up into a set of the most restrictive rules you can find is just trading one extreme for another.