It's deprived you of a common human experience that many people have had, and many of them without bad consequences. It certainly is important to know about you, if you're giving other people advice on how to deal with alcohol. Dawn Eden is looking to celebates for rules to live her sexual life by. It's perfectly fine for her to do this within her own life, but when she writes a book about it, it becomes a legitimate subject for discussion, including by people who think she's overreacting.
Oh good God.
So, apparently depriving oneself of having any given "experience" is bad?
Let's see. What else is common that I should have done, just so I'm more "worldly" and know more about it so I can dare speak of it?
What nonsense. I SEE enough of what happens with drunks and sex-centered leches every day to know enough. You don't need to jump off a cliff to know it's bad for you.