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So now I dont know my own family member? I can assure you If this person was STILL having homosexual feelings, they wouldnt bat an eye to tell me.

Obviously, you have some knowledge of your family member, but that does not mean you know everything. It doesn't work that way. People hide things from other people all the time, and sometimes, even from themselves. If someone's in denial, of course, he can't tell you. Ask any person who has done some clinical work.

Dont think itll happen? go back and see the intital arguments and the fight that went into normalizing homosexuals (and is still being fought).

Why don't you tell me? I don't have any interest in wasting too much time on this subject. If they were saying that it should be legal because it's consensual, then there is no discussion, children cannot consent.

If you respond, I'll have to get back to it.

Well I cant point you to any specific places.

Some of it was here on FR. Some of it I learned from a friend who is a forensic phsycologist and works with sexually abused children and their preditors.

The next time I run into him, Ill ask for some conclusive evidence for you. Its a real concern for him that those in the profession would even conceive of such ideas.

The family member is a she, not a he AND we are very close. its been 15 years since she recovered.

she has also had battles with alchohol and while she would never tell anyone else in the family that she still drinks and LIKES to drink, she tells me.

I know if she still wishes or was still engaged in the homosexual life style she would tell me. you are making assumptions, based on what?

She has nothing to hide from me, no reason to keep secrets. We have talked many times about her past, and nothing indicates that she did it for religious reasons or family pressure.

I dont know what more I can tell you. You can believe what you wish, but I wont participate in a belief that will lead us to even more perversion and the acceptance of abnormal as normal.