[Lost Dutchman]

I would go. Since you have already made your views clear, there is no reason to "make a statement" by not going.

Perhaps as a compromise, if you could not stand to be at the wedding, you could miss the wedding and attend the reception. That should let him know that you "hate the sin, not the sinner."

[Jedi Master Pikachu]

rface's compromise of going to the reception but not the wedding is a smart idea.

[redgirlinabluestate]

Perhaps as a compromise, if you could not stand to be at the wedding, you could miss the wedding and attend the reception. That should let him know that you "hate the sin, not the sinner."

I agree.