Im not ready to give up those women just because they are percieved as being lost causes for the party.
One by one.
But what if that person, after talking to me and many other pro-abort youth, had said, "Listen, we can't nominate Geroge H. W. Bush for the presidency! He's a pro-lifer, he'll drive all these kids away!" Would they have been right? What if that same person, four years before had said "We're going to lose our butts! Geraldine Ferraro is a pro-choicer and Reagan will never be able to win running as a pro-lifer against a ticket with a woman on it! I've talked to a bunch of young people and I know this beyond doubt!"
That's the case you're making here, and you're just as wrong.
Lastly, I don't have my underwear in a bunch, but it really is insulting for you to assume that "Don't judge a presidential candidate by what a young girl tells you because she's not a swing voter" is my way of saying "screw those kids, they aren't worth anything." You really come off as thinking you're the only one who knows about or cares about any of this stuff, and it's somewhat belittling.