Oh, but you are missing the point, don't you see. A Modern (feminist) Woman should be able to have it all...big career, big income, big family, and all without being chained to the kitchen like we all know she was for all of human history, particularly under the Domination of the Evil White Male.
Any woman who doesn't follow that path is letting down The Sisterhood, and is actually a Traitor To The Cause.
This notion of women needing to expend time and effort to raise a child properly is a lie and a fiction that has been laid at the feet of women strictly in order to facilitate their DOMINATION BY EVIL WHITE MEN.
(hopefully I don't need a 'sarcasm' tag :-))
The *freedom* promised women by the feminists is just a form of bondage or slavery that's more oppressive than what they're allegedly being rescued from. Technically, the women are supposed to be equal with men, but I'll bet the woman does the lion's share of running the household in addition to being out earning money. The pressure on her has to be far greater.
I worked at a job before I got married, not a career, a job; and I'll tell you, I couldn't have been happier to quit, get married, finish college, have a family, and STAY HOME.
I know. I have been really put down and insulted for staying at home too.