Your sanctimonious, topsy-turvey, cold-blooded way of thinking is a perfect example of what repels average folks about conservatism.
I said, “Obviously, we all die of something eventually, and many could not have prevented the disease they currently have. But millions of people could have prevented their costly disease if they had been more responsible.”
I really don’t see anything sanctimonious about that - it’s just the truth.
Now there's a way to win friends and influence people...!