She doesn't care. Its all on her. If I were to try to judge righteously, I would say every bit of this is on her.
I do not know how old you are, but if you think men today are selfish, women are much more.
The truth is that this woman doesn't want the baby interfering with her freedom nor the stigma of giving up her child or having a boyfriend more responsible than her. Solution? Just abort it an no one will know. So she thinks.
You may be right, but the woman may also be yanking the BF's chain because he did not immediately offer marriage. It's also possible that he "talks the talk" but prior experience shows he won't walk the walk. Does he have any other bastard children?
If you do any Pregnancy Care Center work or talk to the volunteers there, you will quickly find that the number one reason they are considering abortion is because no one in the mother's life wants her to have the baby or is actively engaged in "discouraging" her into an abortion. These women feel lost and abandoned and more often than not have no knowledge of Christ or God except what they heard in school or t.v.
This great tragedy is not just about women, but about an entire broken society that chooses death and despair over life and hope.