In a spiritual sense, yes. But they don't occupy the same body.
The thing that bothers me about the whole "we are pregnant" thing is that the man is trying to equate his experience with his wife's. That is simply not so. You can try to understand, you can be supportive, some men even walk around with those silly empathy bellies. But they aren't pregnant. They don't feel the discomfort, they don't feel the same way about the baby moving, they don't give birth. They don't have the same connection. Is the connection every bit as valid? Of course. But it is different.
WE are not pregnant. The woman is. I'm sorry guys can't experience it in the same way. But it is a fact.
Men can’t experience being pregnant, and women can’t experience having a pregnant spouse.
If anything, the worries and fears associated with pregnancy were greater for me than for my wife. I didn’t know what was going on, I didn’t know how she was doing, and I couldn’t do anything to help.
Reality usually is that challenges in life are felt hardest by those providing support, not those going through it. Is it harder to have a kid who is sick, or is it harder to be the sick child?