Why does he need to 'get past' that picture? It's not very flattering to him, to be sure, but not everyone takes good pictures all the time. If you're commenting on his wife's gown, I'm sure she paid good money for it, it looks terrific on her, and I'm sure she wasn't the only woman wearing something with a similar bodice.
if that were Rudy’s wife - almost everyone on this site would be calling him a “dirty old man”. that’s the issue.