“tolerant”? - why, yes - to an extent. As somebody said it in a somewhat similar context about 100 yrs ago, “as long as they do not do it in the street and frighten the horses”. Beyond that, from my libertarian leanings I learned the the phrase “none of my business” is a profound one.
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as long as they do not do it in the street and frighten the horses”.
That would be Jenny Jerome (Winston Churchill’s mother) and she was from NYC.