Any obese lesbian that I have every met has either had to deal with child sexual abuse or marital abuse. The unattractive weight - as you say - keeps men at a distance. Even Rosie O’Donnell admits to some kind of sexual abuse as a child.
Then there are the lipstick lesbians - young, attractive women (not unlike the flirtatious Greta Garbo and Louise Brooks and Marlene Dietrich) who like to gender bend. These kind of women seem to drive both men and women crazy.
“Even Rosie O’Donnell admits to some kind of sexual abuse as a child.”
donald Trump landed the biggest blow to Rosie a day or two before she announced that she was leaving the view. He said words to the effect that her wife had to deal with her size and “it can’t be very pleasant”, and in his statement, the meaning of It was very clear.