Posted on 05/12/2007 11:43:22 AM PDT by Minn
THis is very funny. It is time over energy I always say.... Making this decision when you have the energy of a 37 year old is presupposing a hell of a lot to think you will have that level of energy when you are 47.
I am sure those grandparents that are now raising their childrens children for whatever reason can probably tell you that you dont have the same energy level you did 30 years before.
Sorry but there are so many women that are judas goats. ( Judas goats being a special lead goat that leads the rest to the slaughterhouse while it turns off to a safe pen for the next group.) Women are group thinkers and are easily swayed by what other women think or do.
How many women have written articles like this without wisdom nor discernment that pronounced “ We don’t need men, when we want them we can have them at any age” then they wake up in their late 30’s and say... “hey where are all the “good men?” Well your friends, professors and the media were wrong and you pissed your life away on someone else’s stupid advice.
Well you know that guy that treated you well back in college,but you decided the “bad boy” that treated you like crap and eventually dumped you like you knew he would, well that “good guy” eventually appreciated for the love and respect he showed women and is still happily married, fulfilled and content with the one that had a grateful heart.
Meanwhile you are still trying to script your life by reading ideas out of cosmopolitan and listening to your gay guy friends about what you should do with your life. Many
Sorry, I should get back to my a book on “why women shouldn’t listen to other delusional catty women for life advice.”
I would agree with you generally.
In some cases, it’s not that women are OBSESSED with career (as this woman seems to be, admittedly). It’s that they simply don’t find a suitable man and like this woman, will not have an illegitimate (yes, I said that unPC word) child. I fit in this category myself. I didn’t marry till I was shy of 36. And being moral, I never messed around to even risk having a child before that.
But, I think this woman should have been thinking ahead a bit more and realizing that she only has so many good years, period (I’m not talking about fertile years).
As it is, she’s 37, so she still has some reasonable years left. I think beyond 45, though, you’re pushing it as far as how you will age and how that will affect the child.
Cheers,
CSG
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