The trouble is that our immigration laws are being written for the convenience of the aliens, not the citizens. Instead of matching the number of people and skills needed to the number of employers who have available jobs for them, we are concerned with bringing extended families over. If you want to come here for whatever reason, you must give up something. That something may be living with part or all of your family or having to learn English or having to take off the burka.
Absolutely. However, we cave to demands all the time EXCEPT to help our own citizens.