“Same-sex marriage will be the law of the land.”
No it won’t.
No it wont.
We're one Supreme Court decision away from making it so. While Massachusetts has so far refused to marry any out-of-state homosexual couples, we haven't had (to my knowledge) a case of a MA couple getting legally married in that state, then moving to another state, where they will demand that their marriage be recognized under FF&C. When that case gets to the SCOTUS, then the ball game is over.