I assure you he was a guy. Wife, two daughters 13 and 3. His funeral was today. The driver is an illgal alien returning from a wedding with two male relatives. The driver was seriously injured, the front passenger was killed and the one in the back seat was gone when additional officers arrived. he was found at a local hospital with non life-threatening injuries.
Not to mention, initial reports say that alcohol was not involved. That stretches credulity.