Understand that when one searches through the descendants documents there may be items found that are not appropriate to present to a grieving family.
As a counselor, in the course of searching for a LW&T you may find photos of Mr. Smith in flagrante delicto with either Mrs Smith or not-Mrs Smith (it really doesn't matter).
Those things are simply inappropriate to present to a family especially before the funeral.
Now go back to the days when being gay was not a social statement (this is Texas). Are you going to present a family and his life partner with multiple photos of Joe being inappropriate with many nameless faces? Or to print out a screaming screed blaming a parent or lover for all of life's ills, and this painful death?
Be careful what you wish for. As a volunteer I tried to balance discovery with tact, especially when having HIV was a painful death sentence.
I certainly do not have all the answers but I do my best.