You live in a society, mr. clueless, and in a society all of us are forced to do lots of things we don't wish to do, and sometimes don't believe are right or wise.
In this society we're all free to express our opinions and to try to get others to adopt them. If we are successful the institutions of society are energized to enforce our will.
Exactly what is it that you don't like about the process? You don't get your way all the time? Poor baby. Are you a mama's boy? Used to getting your way all the time?
You have chosen to believe stupid things, and as a result you are living ‘terrified’.
You’re free to live that way, and I don’t care. Just don’t impose your foolishness on the rest of us who know better. You’re not mamas favorite anymore.
Leave us alone.