Exactly cat. In my office, I see married men who feed off flirting with women, and married women who feed off flirting with the men.
And then I see the married men and married women who are polite and mature and hard-working and who do not flirt. When we chat, they discuss their spouses and their children and don’t get caught up in the junior high school tee-hee’ing that so often is a part of the workplace.
Like so many things in life, it’s a choice.
You should see my office. A small place in hicksville Hazleton PA and our Plant Manager tells us he and his wife do not have sex. I shake my head because this idiot makes six digits because he has “college”. When he opens his mouth he should be eligible for a refund from that “college”.