Oh, brother.
He stood steadfast in many, many conservative causes over the years including tax cuts, defense, etc. etc. etc. yet his whole life is a lie?
Yep. His life has been a total lie. Whether you like to suck off men or take it in the rear is pretty fundamental about who you are. That he voted right is irrelevant. He’s an old man with not many more years left. He could have been living those years as a happy openly gay man. It’s sad that he wasted all those years in personal despair.