Their was no “Day of Infamy” speech after 9/11. There was a “get on with your lives and go shopping speech”.
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We did get Bush saying “We have heard them. Now they will hear from us” (paraphrased maybe) to the firefighters at the Trade Center. I think that will be what is remembered.
The “with us or with the terrorists” line will, unfortunately, be remembered as mere rhetoric of the moment that hasn’t gotten in the way of our government supporting the Saudis and funding terrorists groups like al Fatah.