We have to pay for a lot of extras to adhere to her standaards now.
Does she have a job? If she has to work to support her own lunacy she may reevaluate her “needs.”
She makes over $50G and between her and the groom they have $100g+ to live on. On top of all that kaballah stuff she is a hard core vegan. Plus she needs a gluten free wedding cake! I agreed to the top layer. At some point you have to consider your guests.