Maybe scarier could be a big old lesbian in leather pants screaming over the phone?
Nah. I’ve been yelled at by big old lesbians. Once because I walked my dog under thier window when they were trying to sleep and once when I was taking a conservative position in a class. I’ve also been yelled at by men in business suits over the telephone (pretty often actually since in a way it’s my job and it’s always some version of “where is my money man, I’m not kidding, where is my money?” or “I’m going to sue you man, I’m not kidding, I’m going to sue you.”) Neither is very scary.
Knife pulled on me while I was in a phone booth. Not particularly scary.
Fights in bars. Not scary.
Wife pregnant. Scary!