That is my point. I am agnostic on the issue as I have no opinion of who someone can and cannot marry
In other words, it is none of my business who my neighbor marries and everyone including the state should not condemn someone's choice of a spouse.
Forget about your neighbors, it’s a given that is none of your business. The evidentiary test would be your position on your daughter wanting to marry, let’s say, a tribal Afgani, or a native of Toga, for example. What would be your position then?